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Once they’ve gone on enough dates, most women start lowering the bar when it comes to marriage material.  And if your standards were too high to begin with, that might even be a good thing.

–But if you lower them TOO much, you could end up with someone you shouldn’t be with.  Here’s a list from “The Huffington Post” of five types of men you shouldn’t marry, because they won’t make you happy in the long run.

#1.)  The Guy Who Hates His Job.  It’s one thing if he doesn’t LIKE his job and he’s looking for something else.  But if he’s miserable and has no drive to find something better, you’ll absorb that negativity, and YOU’LL be miserable too.

#2.)  The Guy Who Puts Work First.  This is the extreme opposite.  If he’s a workaholic, he might be a good PROVIDER.  But he might not be there emotionally.

#3.)  The Guy Who’s Obsessed with His Mother.  If he loves her and always defends her, you’ll never live up to his standards.  If he HATES her, he’ll want you to be the exact opposite, which isn’t realistic.

#4.)  The Guy Who Doesn’t Want You to Meet His Friends.  Men need to spend time with their friends, just like women need a girls’ night out sometimes.

–But if he NEVER wants you around his friends, it’s a sign he’s not ready to share certain parts of his life . . . which means he’s probably not a safe bet.

#5.)  The Guy Who Can’t Believe You Picked Him.  If he says it once, just take it as a compliment.  But if he says it ALL the time, he’s probably got self-esteem issues.  And eventually, you’ll start wondering if he’s right.

(The Huffington Post)